Safety Center

Your Safety is Our Priority

Essential tips and guidelines for safe online dating

Top Safety Rules

Meet in Public

Always meet in a public place for first dates

Tell Someone

Inform a friend or family member about your plans

Stay Sober

Keep your wits about you on first meetings

Trust Your Gut

If something feels off, it probably is

Protect Your Personal Information

Never share sensitive information early: Avoid sharing your home address, workplace, financial information, or other sensitive details until you've built trust.

  • Use the platform's messaging system initially
  • Don't share your full name on your profile
  • Be cautious with social media links
  • Use a Google Voice number or similar service
  • Never send money to someone you haven't met

Recognize Red Flags

Asking for money

Anyone asking for financial help is a scammer

Rushing intimacy

Professing love too quickly is suspicious

Avoiding video calls

Refusing to video chat may indicate catfishing

Moving off platform

Pushing to move to other apps immediately

First Meeting Safety

Follow these guidelines for your first in-person meeting:

  1. Choose a public location: Coffee shop, restaurant, or busy park during daylight hours
  2. Arrange your own transportation: Don't let them pick you up or drive you home
  3. Tell someone where you'll be: Share your location and expected return time
  4. Stay sober: Limit alcohol consumption and never leave your drink unattended
  5. Keep your phone charged: Ensure you can call for help if needed
  6. Have an exit plan: Be prepared to leave if you feel uncomfortable

Reporting and Blocking

We take reports seriously and investigate all concerns. If you encounter inappropriate behavior, suspicious activity, or feel unsafe:

  • Use the "Report" button on any profile or message
  • Block users who make you uncomfortable
  • Contact our support team immediately for urgent concerns
  • Save evidence (screenshots) if reporting harassment
  • Don't engage with suspicious users - report and move on

Emergency Contact:

In case of immediate danger, contact local authorities (Police: 117) first, then report to our support team at support@iwantsexnow.ch

Safe Dating Starts with You

While we work hard to keep our platform safe, your safety is ultimately in your hands. Stay alert, trust your instincts, and don't hesitate to report suspicious behavior.